Superstitious

My sister in law has recurring a nightmares,not about herself but about her 2 and half old daughter.A really bad frightening dream.She don't want to mention about her dream,but i'm sure it's really bad i guess.

Eventhough in modern christian society but,We still believe that if you have a really nightmare, it's maybe a sign of something consequence negative will be happening cause by bad spirit.What we do is we have a family gathering and pray together with the villagers to cure it.Last long time ago,my grandma do believe that shaman can cure a negative element or bad spirit by using 'ubat or pengaruh ' mean a 1001 medicine(it's not in capsule or tablet) used by 'manang' shaman.

Sometime i ask myself why do i believe that,its really hard to explain the reasons or we call it superstitious.

Another superstition is the word 'PUNI' mean if you want something to eat and really mean intention that you want to eat it,you must fulfill it otherwise you will be 'PUNI' mean something bad really happen.However, you can just 'touch' negu the food before you go anywhere or somewhere.if not something bad along the way could be happen.For example, the most dangerous one if you say you want to have a 'tuak' mean a rice wine, you must fullfil it or just touch by saying' udah aki' or 'pas pas'.Mean although you not drink it but you just touch on your lip,should be ok.

My sister tell me a story about a teenage boy,who want to have a rice wine with his friend but he not fulfill it then forget to 'negu' or 'udah ki'.Then the same day he got a really really terrible accident and died on the spot.

It's really hard to explain to you,but it's do really happen.We train by our culture to believe it.Until now i still practice it mean always' negu' if i said i want something to eat but not fulfil it.

However,i think maybe not at all to be follow nowaday.For example, a woman who just give a birth cannot have shower for a month.I don't know why.But i think it's better to have a shower otherwise will create a germ.How do feel not getting shower within one month?.Even one day also cannot stand.

Relationship.Money

One time i heard from someone said that, live with love only is not enough.(i don't know what love mean to him/her).You need money to finance everything with love one.(i guees it correct we need money to pay an expenses).If no money it can tear you and your love one will be run away.(so desperate)But not everyone happy even much money,am i right?

Then,i personally think.I should have a stable job that promise a steady income so that money always come then both happy.Is it the end of the story?i don't know.Life so complex complicated.

Then a buddy told me'if i get married i will not share an account mean open a join account,afraid that he cheat on me and spend money with another woman'.I don't know also to answer because marriage mean sharing everytyhing.It's depend on how you spend your life.

Buddy you maybe right?this modern life we cannot trust 100% on men,doesn't mean look down at them but sometime hard life make people careful.

Maybe something in our life not at all can be shared at least we got something for our own sake.

Unhappy

I don't know the specific definition and conclusion of happiness is.So, what do you think? Emm, my friend just told me how unhappy she is right now.What I can say is just an advise word,deep inside her heart only God knows.Why so unhappy?Is it because of money?personal conflict?relationship?

What is these?I think it's life.Especially for a fresh graduate,just start up a 'new life' face a lot challenging to find a job or career to suit their qualification& experience.Have send a job application, but still under consideration or unsuccessful.Have wasted a lot of money to buy stamp,petrol,waste a photo also,and waste money to pay for internet bill.It's more tough if face such a situation alone,I mean we need a parent,siblings or best and trust friends to be by our side,but not everyone as lucky as we are.So, that's life.Sometimes up sometimes down sometimes fair sometimes unfair.

O..Petara berekat meh pengidup aku pengidup iya pengidup nuan.

Where is my Money??

Today, I'm so 'geram'.I lost my money.I definitely sure the 100 note still inside my purse yesterday evening.Im pretty sure. This morning, I want to fill a gas for my car and take my purse,waaaaa I'm shocked "WHERE IS MY DAMN MONEY''? I asked my salau, did you take something from my purse.No he's not.

So, where is my money???I really need my money. This month is a 'baaadddd' month for me. My car brokedown at the back, then my throat so sakit, then I'm still yet to receive my payment. 1oo note is quite a lot of money for me to purchase anything I want. I want to buy a Loreal package facial foamimg,I want to settle down my unpaid bill.

Here and there need money. And also, here and there the 'item' price is increasing, you can named that 'item'. Luckily, the white bread price remain stay according to the news today. Tension le, money money....I need my money.I need it.

Ya, I'm still figuring where is my money actually? Who take my money? Oooo very sayang.Even I lost 10 cent also very sayang.To go to public toilet need to pay 10 cent.Pay for 'kemek'.Hopefully the price will not increase.Very hard to earn money with a lot of effort.

KAYA/RICH

Kaya??? Sapa enggai kaya duit? kaya penemu kaya pemandai kaya penyiru ngagai orang bukai...serta mayuh ke agi jenis pengaya. Bakani enti kaya reta kaya duit deh? Nama kategory orang tau nyadi kaya?

Engka baka ke dibaruh tu kini? Betul enda? Amat ke enda? Enti betul, tempik ke jari.Pikir-pikir meh dia..

1. Iya ada ari apai indai ke bepenatai pemisi, semua bisi magang tanya aja,ambik aja ni kedeka ati.

2. Iya ulih nyadi kaya laban kereja kuat 24:7.

3.Emmm engka iya bisi enggau orang ba sector'Financial Independent'.Nama nya, enda nemu engka bejual ke insurance, saham kini?

4. Tauka enggau orang MLM ke selalu disebut orang maya ari tu kini? Begiga ke downline, e- business serta mayuh meh ke bukai, kita lebih agi nemu.

5. Nama udahnya neh? au kena tikit kuda, 3 juta

6. Tau ga kawin enggau orang lelaki tauka indu ke kaya reta. Anang enda ingat surat sebayan'Will Writing'. Bisi dipejurai DITU.

7. Enggau orang blogging? Amat kini?

Anang enda ingat ba luar din, mayuh orang nipu ketegal ka jampat kaya .Skim Jampat Kaya. Kelebih malu agi, enti sama bansa nipu sama bansa. Bakani ke tok? Enda nemu, tempap dada diri empu.

Hai guys out there, especially non-Iban of course you think 'what the hell im writing about'? Maybe I can translate with my Ibanenglish, its about Luxury Life...Any more tips outhere? How to getting rich quickly?No cheating.Maybe, there are fortunate child born in the rich family, Lucky draw winner? Work hard while you can etc etc.Whatever, I'm very proud of myself, enjoy my life with beloved family. I love my cat.I'm very happy with my friend.They need me as I need them either in hard time or jolly time. I love my hometown; very peaceful and the town so clean, still fresh air.A little bit of air pollution as people getting have more and more cars at this city .No 'sick people' ,very safe. Praise to GOD.