Statement 1 : Kehilangan IbuBapa Tiada Pengganti!
Statement 2 : Kehilangan Suami Boleh Dicaripenggantinya! 5 seconds katanya
Inilah general statement yang aku dengar dari seorang orang beberapa tahun yang lalu. ( 5 seconds tu tak ada beliau sebut okay ). Beliau memberi nasihat sedikit sebanyak untuk mengharungi kehidupan ini.
Statement 1 : Secara amnya, Aku memang setuju sungguh dengan pendapat beliau. Oleh itu sayangilah IbuBapa kita semasa mereka masih ada dunia ini. Do not take them for granted. Sekiranya ada ibu bapa sebagai pengganti yang baru pun memang tidak akan sama dengan ibu bapa kita yang ada. Apabila aku pandang wajah kedua orang tuaku , hatiku sayu, hiba dsbynya. Memikirkan, what I should do to thanks them for bring me into this life. Or I shall Thank God for giving me this kind of parent. Thank you Lord for what I am now.Lord, I try to be good. Help me ! Walau….. kadangkala I feel hurt deep inside my heart for something I cannot I reveal here. But still..They are my parents! That’s the fact! Sebaik- baik ibu bapa orang ngan kita pun, it will never be the same. Never. Aku rasa kekok, takut dan berhati hati ngan ibu bapa orang lain. I mean IL. There is a gap there.Am i bad because having these such feeling? Tapi dengan parents sendiri there is never be a gap in between. That’s how I feel.
Statement 2 : Tuan-tuan & puan2 jangan mare la.Okay.Ini pendapat aku in certain case for certain people. I tak menggalakkan you cari pengganti pun . Kalau suami you jaik, buat apa simpan lama- lama kan? Do not waste your time and become a slave.Know your right, women!Simpati diri dulu belum simpati orang lain. Esok lusa maybe you find a good one. Entahlah. Malas aku ulas panjang berjela. You know better!
The good one we try to keep la kan ? Manusia kan macam macam ada. The good one pun not enough, mau cari pengganti la pulak.Apa punya manusia lo engko! ……
these men who mean so much to us,
who are greatly responsible
for who we are and who we are becoming.
Bless them for having the courage
to do what’s necessary to keep us out of trouble,
for making us do the right thing,
for helping us build our character,
even when it makes us angry;
and bless them for pushing us to do our best,
even when they just want to love us.
Bless our fathers for being our protectors,
for leading us through stormy times to safety,
for making us believe that everything will be all right
and for making it so.
Bless our fathers for quietly making a living
to provide for those they love most,
for giving us food, clothing, shelter
and other necessary and not so necessary material things,
for unselfishly investing time and money in us
that they could have spent on themselves.
Bless our fathers, Lord,
for saving some energy for fun,
for leading us on adventures
to explore the outer reaches of ourselves,
for making us laugh,
for being our playmates and our friends.
Bless them for being our secure foundation, our rock,
for holding on tight to us...until it’s time to let us go.
Lord, bless these men we look up to,
our role models, our heroes,
our fathers.
In Jesus’ name we pray, Amen.
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