Do Not Exploit & Abuse Women and Children!

She has been labelled the Terminator by human traffickers. For her untiring efforts in fighting sex slavery and exploitation of women and children, Anuradha Koirala was chosen CNN Hero 2010. Sunday Star catches up with this feisty woman.

WITH a twinkle in her eyes and her hands clasped, Anuradha Koirala greets everybody she meets with the customary Namaste greeting. “Call me Dijuu (elder sister in Nepalese),” says the motherly figure with a warm smile that instantly draws you to her. But if you’re a human trafficker, you had better watch out because Koirala is out to get you!

The founder and executive director of Maiti (Mother’s Home) Nepal personally raids brothels in India to rescue trafficked Nepalese girls and brings them back home. And she even patrols the India-Nepali border to keep a lookout for vans and buses crossing the border that may be used to traffick women and children.

Maiti has saved more than 12,000 girls from sex slavery and prevented 45,000 children and women from being trafficked at the border.Read more.......

Koirala: ‘It hurts me a lot but it also keeps me going. I neve r regret that I do this work.’.Picture from here

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Although i never met this incredible woman, but i respect and salute her.

Human trafficking

I am consider myself very lucky living in this earth. We have a peaceful place to live even though as not peaceful as we let our children play alone outside the gate like we did last time. Free to play outside. Free to walk to and back from school. But this time, i am worry to let my girl play alone eventhough inside the gate.Alone. Because the earth is not safe place to live anymore.

Compare to others country maybe we consider ourself more bless living here. Only that we have more precautions! Children missing and never return was happen.

I just read and heard the news what happen to others country, it make me angry and i want to have a super power to save them instantly. Only God knows. Let's us pray, especially to women and children that have been violated and raped. God has mercy on them and punish the satan behind those human's face.

Domestic violence.

This case thus happen here and everywhere. If he beats you up everyday, actually you're not marry to a man but to satan behind man's face. Man give you love you're deserve but satan give you pain from hell. Logically, you're suppose to escape from hell and go to heaven. Ask help and leave him for you to continue a good and peaceful live. Life vs honour of name, i will choose life that God gives me. Honor? What's in honor? What's is so honor in this temporary life? Life is just once so we 're suppose to treasure life by doing goods thing. I hope bad humans like human trafficker , abuser and rapist will be vanished from this earth.

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Where and how do I apply for a domestic violence protection order?

Combined and collaborative efforts between the Department of Social Welfare ^[1], Royal Malaysian Police^[2] and the courts ^[3] are needed to provide assistance and protection to victims of domestic violence and their children.

Lodging A Police Report

Go to the nearest police station and lodge a police report against your spouse or offender for domestic violence.

Make sure you make a written report of all violence acts committed by your spouse or offender against you. Provide as much evidence and information as possible about the incidents, proving the severity of your case. Evidence can come from a variety of sources such as neighbour who witnessed the incident, police report, medical report and recordings of abusive telephone messages. Supply the date, time and location of each incident. At the same time, notify the police officer that you need protection from your spouse or offender and require an interim protection order. A police report will be given to you. Always get a certified copy of the police report.

Ask for the names, police identification numbers and contact numbers of the police officers in charge of your case. They should be carrying their police identification card at all times while on duty.

The police will undertake an assessment and make a referral to the relevant Department of Social Welfare (Malay: Jabatan Kebajikan Masyarakat).

The police is responsible for investigating the matter and deciding whether to charge the offender which must be done within twenty-four (24) hours of arrest. Depending on the strength of the evidence and prospect of conviction, the police may detain the offender for more than twenty-four (24) hours but not more than fourteen (14) days if an extension has been granted by the court.

Applying For An Interim Protection Order

Proceed to the nearest Department of Social Welfare, bringing along with you the police report. Inform the social welfare officer your situation and your need for an interim protection order. The social welfare officer will

• assist you and your children in applying for an interim protection order from the court;


• assist you in getting medical treatment at the nearest public hospital if you are injured. Ask for a medical report;


• provide or arrange for you an alternative residence or temporary shelter if required;


• accompany you to your residence to collect personal belongings; and/or


• assist you in getting your children settled in their new life and school if needed.

References

1. ^ Website of the Jabatan Kebajikan Masyarakat Malaysia (JKMM)


2. ^ Website of the Polis Diraja Malaysia (PDRM)


3. ^ Website of the Mahkamah Persekutuan Malaysia

Source from here.

Bila Ujung Bulan

Picture source: sample pic. from here

Now ujung bulan.For –works with other’s people. You know what I know.

Seperti biasa, life goes on still need money to survive. Survive for money? Money for survive? Any different??

When we receive money, a lot things in mind what I am goin to do next. What else settle the debt? I think ptnghan umur dewasa ini mmg bayar hutang aja lah alamatnya.So how to live next within our mean?

I have something in my mind to share.How to live within our means, especially yang family man? Supaya tidak terkandas di garisan.

1.When receive the gaji, First thing first- If possible compulsory to pay the needs like housing loan, car loan or whatever loan. Kita pun sedia maklum, kalau you tak bayar sekarang.Ya sekarang , next month nanti you kena bayar double payment.Tidakkan menyusahkan begitu besides have to bear the interest.

2. Pay for family needs first like fees for daycare, foods and so on. For groceries maybe can take a look the offer in newspapaer.Maybe dekat Giant got offer ¼ price for diapers ke. That will be something.

3. If no discipline, please do not use credit card. It’s better if you never fill the application form. I think without this card we can still survive in this our country. Debit card as an alternative.

4. Window shopping boleh kalau iman kuat. Maksudnya, lama-lama window nanti mau beli pulak. Macam aku ini species yang tak kuat iman, kalau orang tag dalam facebook, tengok cantik terus rasa mau beli (tapi tak tau kualiti ke tidak).Maklumlah online tak Nampak duit keluar dari purse. Lain kali please say ‘Do not tag me.Thank you’’.

5. Jangan buat loan yang mengarut. Biasalah adatkan, sedikit-sedikit mau loan. Pergi Courts tengok cantik terus mau loan. Kalau tak bayar ni dia terus saman, dah nama nya courts kan.

6. Tahan nafsu. Bolehkah? COntoh aku sekarang giler dengan Tupperware, tapi mahal lah dengan kualitinya yang tinggi. As alternative pergi je Everise beli Elianware ke Apple Lady ke. CUbalah tahan nafsu. I dare you.Bukan senang hidup sebagai manusia yang mempunyai pelbagai nafsu.

7. Rajin- rajinlah bangun awal, buat bekal turun kerja.

8. No motto'' Biar Papa Kedana Asalkan Bergaya". Bahaya Tu. Cau dulu!

P/S: Akhir sekali ada satu perumpamaan’’ Besar Periuk Besar lah Kerak Nasi nya”. Yang ini aku setuju sekali.Biasalah manusia kan. Ada yang memang tak pernah puas dengan yang ada. Ada-ada aja.

Jerita Uging enggau Antu Raya-part 2

Nampung baru jerita Uging nyin kemari.......

Nya keno ko jerita..

Uging tu udah nyiap ngelalai kediri empu. Dini iya belalai ko kita? Din iya belalai ba puchuk tibang. Tibang tu alai kitai menya kelia nyimpan padi.Agi bisi tibang kita wai? Pemesai-mesai tibang orang kelia suba ulih alai Uging belalai.Rangkal orang kelia ukai baka kitai diatu.Suba, endang chukup pemesai rangkal kitai Iban munyi ko niang aki. Enda nemu aku engka amat kini.

Ba tibang diak meh Uging ngenat kediri.Kebuah iya belalai ba tibang ngambika enda temu antu raya pia ko dalam ati tudah tuai kediri. Ba takut meh tudah tuai kediri. Uji ngasai diriempu kitai.Nang ke nadai antu dipeda mata sereta didinga pending pan kitai takut.Anang ke enti antu nyeruga di peda mata. Enda taku nuan?

Dinga Uging munyi utai semetak ari jauh sereta tapak kaki iya bedentom-dentom sigi sigi sigi.Nyo baka munyi ‘’Tum Ketumba! Indai Ragum Nadai Diak!. Enda lama nyu majak semak tauka damping. Majak semak munyinya datai meling rumah iya. ‘’Antu raya meh nya’’ keno ko dalam ati iya.Enda mukai mukai munyi sada nyawa antu raya nya rabau ngangau ke nama Uging.’’Ni nuan Uging!! Tu aku datai deka nelan nuan segala.Nyam-nyam!!!!!!!!! ’’ ko antu raya nya manjung ngagau ke nama Uging.Munyi ke nyamai diempa meh mensia enti munyi ko antu raya tu. Baka ke bula bakani enda antu raya nemu nama Uging tu. Uging pan alit ati bakani antu raya tau ngelala nama iya. Ba nama iya cherita.

Antu raya ngangau baru’’Ni nuan Uging?!!’’. ‘’To aku,ba dapur” ko iya. Kebendar iya ukai Uging nyaut tadi. Bala sida pama ke nyaut tanya antu raya. Antu raya nyu pan meling mansang ke dapur.DIgusak gusak iya tiang dapur.Enda puas ati nanya baru antu raya’’Ni nuan Uging?!’’. ‘’TO aku ba sadau’’ ko bala pama nyaut. Ninga saut nya tadi dia antu raya meling sadau ga. Nyau bepeling peling tudah antu raya nya semalam malam. Nya tuju pama nya tadi dikena nyaut tanya antu raya. Pemaioh pama diengkah Uging ba dapur, ba sadau ba bilik meh sekeda iya.Nyu besaut saut sida pama, sampai ke antu raya nya nyau enda dapat nanya nanya agi. Nyu bungau pala antu raya.Sebening lalat bisi meh pama majak bepeling aja. Ni enda enda lama iya ke dapur enda lama ke sadau enda lama meling belah bilik nitih ke dini saut bala sida pama. Bisi ga pengamat iya, enti nyema Uging nyaut ending berupai ditemu antu raya enda pia iya neh.

Sampai ke pagi antu raya bepeling peling.Enda meh tetemu ke Uging laban alai nyu bepeling aja.Ari pan angkat tawas, antu raya pan pulai enggau mut mut iya.

‘’Ila ensepi nuan Uging, malam legi aku datai baru deka nelan nuan segala’’ ko antu raya nya.

Bah nemu antu raya nya udah angkat kaki, sereta ari pan udah ga tawas diak deh Uging murus dada.

Lapang meh ati iya keno.’Agi enseput meh aku sari tu, ’’ko iya rawan kediri empu.

(ila nampung baru enti bisi ari) part 2 Antu raya meri tinchin ajih ngagai Uging................

Jerita Uging enggau Antu Raya

Jerita Uging enggau Antu Raya-Versi B.Iban-part 1

Jerita tuai tu ditusoi sida indai enggau niang aki aku.

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Nyadi kelia menya suba, bisi siko lelaki benama Uging.Iya tinggal ba ujung rumah panjai enda betampung enggau orang rumah panjai. Tang rumah Uging ulih dipeda sida orang kediau dirumah panjai diak.

Uging tu ngembuan gamal ti pengambih iya jaik. Iya kurap sereta lusung, betis iya bekuris belakang iya bongkok baka pengema ribis basung. Nya meh kebuah sida orang ba rumah panjai diak enggai betampung rumah enggau Uging tu. Sida iya keji enggai kedirampit kurap Uging.Sekeda ti ngembuan lintan jai endang sigi nyadi ke asi meh Uging tu. Ditundi, dikeji, disumpah.

To ukai Uging hehee. Picture from here.

Nyadi lebuh maianya kelia, menua balat amat gagau ke antu raya.Nyu tiap tiap malam antu raya ngagau mimpi sida ke ngimpun menua diak.Laban menua kelalu amat gagau, diak sida ba rumah panjai nya pindah, ngelebus mai reta tengkira ngagai menua siti da. Nyadi sida orang rumah panjai pindah enggai ngemai tudah Uging. Ko sida”Enda ibuh enggau kami pindah nuan Uging, ditu meh nuan tinggal ngibun tembawai kami’’.Ko sida. Kasih meh tudah Uging digaga sida bakanya. Tinggal meh tudah tuai Uging kediri-diri aja ngembuan tembawai ti enda lama da deka repa.

Berunding kediri meh tudah Uging tu bakani deka nyeliah kediri empu ari ke diempa antu raya.Diak deh Uging tebulih ke siti runding. Tumu tumu pagi Uging ngagai sungai ngiga pama. Nyadi iya ukai ngiga pama kediempa, tang ngiga pama dikena iya beribun. Udah iya bulih pama diak bai iya pulai sida pama nya tadi. Diengkani, diberi iya makai manah manah pama nya tadi.DItulang ke iya ikan manah mana enggai ke pama nya tengkelan, legi nyu enda dapat nyaut antu raya. Nyadi kelia, pama nemu bejaku tauka nyaut tanya. Pama nya meh kena iya nyaut antu raya semalam-malam.

Bah, ari pan deka datai lemai. Nyadi Uging sereta pamanya udah nyikap diri empu ke penatai antu raya nya legi. Ari pan belabuh malam, matahari siang pan belabuh padam…………………….

(Besambung baru)

p/s : Copyright:Jerita dikarang ari pengingat Unai. Bisi sekeda jalai cherita enda ingat.Jerita tuai ti nadai bekait ke enggau agi idup sereta orang ti ke udah nadai.)

Iban's Song

Stay tune dulu.

Reminder Before Keluar Dari Kuching

Tips for travelling – inbound Cuti-Cuti Malaysia .

Other than I get the tip from reading & listening, some are tokok-tambah.

I am excited for our Cuti-cuti Malaysia soon. See other peoples place and try new foods. But before go for vacation, what are those things take into account.

8.Who is going to feed my pets?

Bear in mind, who is going to feed your pets (if any) when you away and happy holiday? Takkan biar binatang- binatang itu kelapran selama seminggu. I have only a cat and a tortoise, mybe send them to kampong for a while. Kalau you ada duit maybe can book a boarding home for those pets. .tak lah menyusahkan orang jaga.

7.Photostat ic,importants documents

Make a copy of all important documents is must! Who know you’ll miss place or something.

6.Buy the key Locked for luggage

Beli mangga untuk luggage anda. Mana tau, kalau orang jahat simpan dadah. Tak pasal pasal you’’ll become the innocent victim.

5.Research /study the place you go

Of course you have to do research about the place that you’ll going to visit. CoNTOH jamban yang dekat dekat mana? Yala, mana tau sedang you jalan jalan tiba-tiba perut memulas teramat sangat?

4.Pack early the things you’ll bring away .Do not last minute (esok jalan hari ini pack ).

1. Things for my kid- Ingat bawa ubat sirap demam, colic and vicks ( in case of emergency)

2. Tuala/ Baby wipe/Pampers

3. Pacifier

4. Milk powder etc etc

5. And your own things.(Jangan asyik sibuk ingat barang anak,sendiri lupa bawa spenda! )

3.Inform the relatives/neighbours

Do not mean you re show off to the neighebour that you’ll goin to vacation. Just inform that so that they can help eyes to look after your house. Jangan neighbor pulak jadi burglar.Ehhh jahat kau!!Tak pasal pasal balik barang semua lenyap!

2.Switch of all the electricity , gas, water pipe.

Do not forget before you leave.

1.Pray for positive thing

Pray to God for your safe leaving and safe return back to home.

Taurus and Rooster in 2011

Taurus Yearly 2011 Horoscopes:

I get this article. Might think it fun reading but coincidently it correct. Sometimes.

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Taurus

Apr 20- May 20)

Stubborn but patient, Taurus is always willing to weather a storm. The Taurus 2011 yearly horoscope shows that this quality will help you during the rockier parts of 2011. The first part of the year will bring struggle in career and money, while health issues will also cause confusion throughout the year. The good news is that love and intimacy are at an all time high, allowing Taurus to have constant support. The challenges of this year will result in personal growth and change, all working towards the positive.

Taurus in 2011

Taurus 2011 Career and Income Horoscope

According to the Taurus 2011 yearly horoscope, the greatest enemy to career the Taurus will have in 2011 is himself. Even if the world economy is causing strife and confusion, there is no need to internalize this. Worrying about everything from your job, your debt to your future will not cause anything to improve. Instead, put your best face forward and trust that you are capable of doing a great job. And if you truly are not, take some action! Taurus 2011 is a good year for learning new skills and developing capabilities with the objective of achieving confidence in all that you already have to offer. You might be surprised - January through May is ripe for achievement. Don’t let self deprication leave you out of the game.

Taurus 2011 Love, Family and Social life Horoscope

The one place you are certain to receive support is from friends, family and loved ones. The Taurus 2011 yearly horoscope shows that this year, romance is at an all time high. Your ability to interact, confide and open yourself to your partner is looking good. However, trust is a key part of this bloom in your relationship. If you are starting something new, do not rush into this type of intimacy. Play it cool and allow yourself to move at a slow pace. You have more than enough in the way of friends and new ones are coming your way March-June. Forcing romance when your support calendar is already full is an unnecessary move.

Taurus 2011 Education and Traveling Horoscope

Love is a great motivator when it comes to travel. Give over to these impulses. It’s time for Taurus to let someone else grab the reins and if that means doing something wild and crazy, so be it. After the stress of this year, the Taurus 2011 yearly horoscope shows that you will need to find ways to relax and enjoy. It might be time to cash in that vacation time you’ve been hoarding. Do it. Be nice to yourself. In the midst of such struggle, it’s important to allow time to relax.

Taurus 2011 Health Horoscope

Taurus, there are few challenges you cannot take on. You are known for being stubborn and not a quitter. Use these qualities this year if you are forced to fight any battles with your health. Approach the task logically. What is working? What is not? Do more of what is working and eliminate everything that isn’t. The Taurus 2011 yearly horoscope shows that this might mean cutting out some pleasures you are not ready to let go but when it comes to getting healthy, it’s time. Don’t let that stubborn attitude work against you.

ROOSTER in 2011

Feng Shui 2011 Horoscope Forecast for Rooster

The Rooster will face some big challenges in the year 2011. You have the most inauspicious forecast as the result of Natural Disaster Star sitting in your home direction and two Three Killings Stars flanking your location. Be sure to subdue them with Feng Shui cures to remove the negative influences of these stars. The malicious Wu Wang (Five Yellow) is directly facing the Rooster and it brings misfortunes and bad luck. Suppress with Five Element Pagoda. Rooster-born is also confronting the Grand Duke Jupiter (Tai Sui) and this is considered a very nasty affliction. Appease it with Colorful Crystal Liuli Pi Yao Tassels in the East sector. You should also wear a Pi Yao amulet such as the Tiger's Eye Pi Yao Protection Pendant Amulet,Colorful Liu li Crystal Pi Yao Bracelet (s) or Jade Pi Yao Bloodstone Lucky Charm Bracelet. It’s not completely bad. Your inner chi strength is high so you will be able to ride out the turbulences of the year. The powerful star of 9 (future prosperity star) is in your chart as well so it’s a good year to be ambitious and set your sights on higher level positions. In your office, you should place the Brass Dragon Tortoise with Ruyi on your desk, as well as the center of the main room in your home – doing so will enhance the effects of your superior’s compliments, and increase your chances for raises and promotions. Plan well and strategize. Use Feng Shui Crab Keychain to assist you. With the right Feng Shui cures and attitude (determination and drive), you could actually emerge triumphant by year end so don’t give up! Wear theTiger's Eye Bracelet with Tiger Tooth Dzi Bead; this bead will help you excel in life, allowing you to find your inner willpower and perseverance and fight for what you deserve. In addition to this, you can also display the Three Carps with Crystal Ball during this year, as it will allow them to embrace the harmony between earth, heaven and the human race.

Horoscope Allies and Secret Friend Amulet for Rooster is a must-have good luck charm for Rooster people.

Kids Are Quick

I received via email and i would like to keep for future reference

sharing.

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Kids Are Quick ___________________________________ TEACHER: Maria, go to the map and find North America . MARIA: Here it is. TEACHER: Correct. Now class, who discovered America ? CLASS: Maria. ____________________________________ TEACHER: John, why are you doing your math multiplication on the floor? JOHN: You told me to do it without using tables. __________________________________________ TEACHER: Glenn, how do you spell 'crocodile?' GLENN: K-R-O-K-O-D-I-A-L' TEACHER: No, that's wrong GLENN: Maybe it is wrong, but you asked me how I spell it. (I Love this kid) ____________________________________________

TEACHER: Donald, what is the chemical formula for water?

DONALD: H I J K L M N O.

TEACHER: What are you talking about?

DONALD: Yesterday you said it's H to O.

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TEACHER: Winnie, name one important thing we have today that we didn't have ten years ago.

WINNIE: Me!

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TEACHER: Glen, why do you always get so dirty?

GLEN: Well, I'm a lot closer to the ground than you are.

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TEACHER: Millie, give me a sentence starting with ' I. '

MILLIE: I is...

TEACHER: No, Millie..... Always say, 'I am.'

MILLIE: All right... 'I am the ninth letter of the alphabet.'

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TEACHER: George Washington not only chopped down his father's cherry tree, but also admitted it. Now, Louie, do you know why his father didn't punish him?

LOUIS: Because George still had the axe in his hand...

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TEACHER: Now, Simon, tell me frankly, do you say prayers before eating?

SIMON: No sir, I don't have to, my Mom is a good cook.

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TEACHER: Clyde , your composition on 'My Dog' is exactly the same as your brother's. Did you copy his?

CLYDE : No, sir. It's the same dog.

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TEACHER: Harold, what do you call a person who keeps on talking when people are no longer interested?

HAROLD: A teacher

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PASS IT AROUND AND MAKE SOMEONE LAUGH!

LAUGHTER IS THE SOUL'S MEDICINE!!

Fever.Flu.Sore Throat

Second day of new year not a good day to start!

I have bad flu, fever and sore throat. From 2nd. Till 7hb than feel a bit well.

Aku ni jarang jarang sekali kena penyakit semacam itu. Sekali dah terkena, memang virus tu menyerang habis habisan.Nak makan pun susah apalagi gago molah kerja. Phew!

Flu!Flu! go away.Do not COME again another next year!

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01.01.2011

FIrst day of new Year is buy the 4d no.

I wish to buy 1111 but the number sold out already.So i buy another numbers. Unluckily, the next day result number tidak mengena!

I am not that the kaki number, just wish try the luck in the year of Rabbit. No GOOD luck yet........